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When have you felt unconditionally accepted?

Posted on Jun 2nd, 2008 by C.G. : Sacred Vow C.G.
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for June 02, 2008:

Funny thing, it seems quite consistent that whenever I am unconditionally accepting myself, so is all the rest of the world.
Amazing!!
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How are you a friend to yourself?

Posted on Jun 3rd, 2008 by C.G. : Sacred Vow C.G.
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for June 03, 2008:

As you would with your dearest, be fully present, heart wide open, and with an absence of judgement.

In truth, our every relationship is with ourself, for every relationship (even with the Absolute) can only be experienced through ourself. It is our only way of connection (go inward to reach out).

If we act with disdain or disregard toward ourselves, we get that stain all over everything we touch, no matter how we do not intend to.

Remember, self worth is a gift given and gifts cannot be justified, only accepted or rejected.
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What is the best use of your imagination?

Posted on Jun 4th, 2008 by C.G. : Sacred Vow C.G.
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for June 04, 2008:

As introduction to oneself.
As jungian Robert Johnson says in "Inner Works", "the whole function of the imagination is to draw the material from the unconscious, clothe it in images [music, dance, concept], and transmit it to the conscious mind. Whatever comes up in the imagination must have been living somewhere in the fabric of the unconscious...."

peace and wonder, dear ones,
CG

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When was the last time you were really listened to?

Posted on Jun 5th, 2008 by C.G. : Sacred Vow C.G.
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for June 05, 2008:

Go ahead caller, I'm listening......

What's it like? It's like I am still working on it (the not coming up with a solution part).

Question: If we do not offer solution or input, and we are not there for the obvious presence, is "just listening, whole-heartedly" effective online? I usually am most aware of that soulful listening by the look in the eyes.....
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What's your guiding question?

Posted on Jun 6th, 2008 by C.G. : Sacred Vow C.G.
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for June 06, 2008:

"...does it improve the silence?"
Sai Baba
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What makes you feel wealthy?

Posted on Jun 7th, 2008 by C.G. : Sacred Vow C.G.
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for June 07, 2008:

Taking joy in one's blessings makes me wealthy. Without gratitude, I would always live in beggary within the heart of abundance.


Quite often it's the most simple things that make me feel wealthiest......

If I am working in the scorching sun, the passing cloud makes me rich; If I am entrenched in serious thought, the passing smile.

If I am stressed and my body aches, Kathy's loving touch makes me a wealthy man. Sometimes when I do not even know my heart is stressed, the unanticipated kind word is bounty.

Being connected with like spirits, being aware that I am one with all spirits, being in nature, receiving birds songs offered for me to enjoy.....

I AM quite rich...and I am grateful.
Blessings to all, and the heart to realize them,
CG

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How do you handle change in your life?

Posted on Jun 8th, 2008 by C.G. : Sacred Vow C.G.
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for June 08, 2008:

My ego mind quite often does not like change, for it resides in the illusion of constancy.

Fortunately, the part of me that remains rooted in the Tao, knows to flow like  water.

This part of me incorporates the boulder that has fallen in the river, flows around, but continues to flow.

The river "changes," or removes the boulder if it has the power.

The boulder alters the appearance of the river, but not the essence.
And if there is a dam? The spirit of water is still river.
Appearances change. Change changes.

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What recent book or film have you been affected by?

Posted on Jun 12th, 2008 by C.G. : Sacred Vow C.G.
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for June 12, 2008:

the movie is Bella...an experience of how a noble, but perhaps immature, spirit rises above suffering and flourishes, positively affecting lives from a simple position.
blessings all,
CG 
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When have you felt the most free?

Posted on Jun 13th, 2008 by C.G. : Sacred Vow C.G.
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for June 13, 2008:

In meditation, when I follow my muses, when I follow my imagination...
you know, they all seem to sum up to "when I am not trying to be in control"....
blessings and joy,
CG
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What was the last thing you found yourself waiting for?

Posted on Jun 24th, 2008 by C.G. : Sacred Vow C.G.
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for June 24, 2008:

I cannot say that I "enjoy" waiting. I can do it easily enough when I have put myself in a position to have to wait...though I may have to remind myself depending on the outward appearance of cause for the wait.

The only fix I know for waiting is to release anticipation/expectation.
peace and blessings, dear ones,
CG
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How do you respond to suffering?

Posted on Jun 25th, 2008 by C.G. : Sacred Vow C.G.
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for June 25, 2008:

I tend to need quiet time in my sanctuary to heal, when suffering.
Also, I find it easier to suffer than to watch a loved one suffer.
blessings, all,
CG

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What is your greatest distraction?

Posted on Jun 26th, 2008 by C.G. : Sacred Vow C.G.
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for June 26, 2008:

(for me) Focusing on something defined as a distraction is the distraction, and gives it more staying power. Accepting it as a passing cloud over the lake allows it to naturally pass.

I suspect that imagining that I know what is others' distraction would be terrible exercise in ego....and just might qualify as a "distraction."

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What do you want for the world?

Posted on Jun 27th, 2008 by C.G. : Sacred Vow C.G.
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for June 27, 2008:

...that I could know, understand, and support what the world wants for itself.
peace and a wonderful weekend, dear ones,
CG
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What is happiness?

Posted on Jun 30th, 2008 by C.G. : Sacred Vow C.G.
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for June 30, 2008:

Happiness is something you bring with you to any given situation.

And if you come bearing true happiness, it is contagious to anyone willing and capable at the moment.


Happiness as a pursuit?

Happiness is as a butterfly which, when pursued, is always beyond our grasp, but which if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you.

--Nathaniel Hawthorne

blessings and joys, dear ones,
CG

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